I pray for the couple as well. I do not agree w/ Juanita making haste to divorce. I'm praying that the Lord teach Juanita how to submit. Listening to many of her messages, she treats her husband like he's her son, or as if she's his pastor. Juanita needs patience and kindness. She needs to be delivered from Juanita, she also needs to learn how to listen and apply what she had heard and said. She also, need to obey Jesus when he said, forgive. Forgive is not just a word, it's an action. Thomas sin is forgiven, he didn't blaspheme the Holy Ghost. He used the rod. The bible says, "a rod for the fools back." Sometimes, we as unsubmittal women need that hell knocked out of us to get our attention. So many of us women, especially African-American women are out of order.